10 ways to boost SELF CONFIDENCE!

10 ways to boost SELF CONFIDENCE! (The most common issue)

Self confidence is one of the promising problem among many people including young and old ones. It is in fact one of the tremendous aspects in discovering new bright ways in personality, milestones,education, professional jobs,etc.  It poses many questions like, “Can I do this myself?, Do I qualify for this or that?, Why I always have to suffer so long…why me?, Can I run this whole project?”.

Majority of people who suffer this chronic issue are victimized due to lack of trust in confessing their inside power and abilities that they possess, which, later causes in inferior complexity, resulting in major cause of lacking of self confidence.

Here, I will discuss some important points which may relief this problem.

1. Do what you want to do, esp. that you feel like you would never do it. Chase your goals. Don’t worry if people demotivate you but never lower your morale. Remember,running after your goals makes you a piece of pearl and legend

2. Old method but still gold: Stand before mirror and speak aloud to boost your potential and confidence, later, use it initially for small group of people.
3. Make your first appearance to initiate in public discussions or forums, provide smart chances to your fellows to get involved in discussions with you. It will boost your interacting power

4. All creatures pay attention to dynamic object. Try to stand for long time on stage and feel the stage to overcome your fear.Use your stage or place wisely, keep changing your position time to time, when you deliver your pitch or presentation.

5. Make your eye contact accurate and moving so that you can maintain your eye contact with many people around you.

7. Use your tone in effective way, it reflects your potential, personality and confidence. Remember, don’t bark, just talk with high and low notes or tones.

8. Make your reflexes of your hands, shoulders and face expression appealing according to need of the condition and topic. They really make sound impact on audience to keep focusing at you.

9. Never shy to express your opinion in public, your shyness sometimes kills your talent. Present your opinion with good examples and reasons

10. Trust your abilities that you possess, keep shining them. All those who told you that you couldn’t do it, show them you have done it!

Motivational Philosophy “Life if …on sea shore”

Life is full of surprises, every time, everyday and from every relation we learn a lot. From every sinking ship in sea and setting sun in west, there are many lessons for us to judge.
(Visualize) It is like standing alone on sea-shore with deep thoughts in mind reminding the past like playing old cassettes in a video recorder,smiling unintentionally on memorable memories with those fellows and making sighs by looking in sky-high and then closing the eyes by saying hoooooo…….(exhaling air through mouth)! hitting right feet waves on shore with power to go back in that time.
On other hand, walking along sea-shore with trembling deep feet in sands, with hands packed in pockets, walking with slow pace, moving like an actor recording for the sad video song shooting, with lips tapped tight and napping the head with guest-er (of NO) for what all what happened bad or ended in sorrow recently but at the same time by looking into the sky and thanking Almighty Lord for saving from all hazards, those awkward ones and mischievous people who could have caused more damage to your life-like a car crash on fast motorway.
In the end, turning away from the sea-side with reality revealed itself that one must be sincere, devoted and loyal to at least claim that I did my job at best but if results are contrary it is always better to drive alone than to keep fake person,friends or people who stab you right at your back at the time you may need most.
Such things never gonna make you weak but these incidents do happen to make you strong for someone or group of people you are gonna lead one day or who is looking your way so long but haven’t come across yet but it also tells that if you got lost in such lost and sad memories, your life could have been at end on sea-shore where from we just came from, may be by drowning into the sea unintentionally. But that was the only positivity because of that you left that sea of sadness alone, thanked Almighty Lord and returned back to life with real motivation and something new and inspiring in yourself
This happens in everyone life on this planet on some part of life which reveals we all are real mines of becoming that someone that world is looking for. We just have to realize ourselves how special and strong we all already are despite being alone or in group! Yeah! Because life is so soothing and motivating if it is understood deeply on sea-shore.