Top 10 Mistakes, A FRESH GRADUATE Commits! Be-aware!!!

Top 10 Mistakes, A FRESH GRADUATE Commits! Be-aware!!!

Most of the candidates about 80 to 90% graduates pass their final examination with some spark of missing the  graduation life but they don’t know that their REAL TEST has just begun. Very few make their steps with perfection according to the demand of situation but due to lacking of career counseling, many of the graduate become wander for sometime and somehow they may face this expression in home, friends and in events:

So, plan fast and good so that you can save your time, degree, passion and of course your love otherwise you should be brave enough to let them go in a bunch. Well,  be aware about 10 common but TOP mistake that graduates commit. Here are those mistake that one should be careful that you must not repeat the same.

1. Not applying for further Studies, Scholarship or Apprentice Programs i.e. Post graduation or Masters, Direct PhD.

2. Becoming Over smart as he or she completed the degree but they don’t know that REAL TRAIL has just BEGUN,  lacking of furnishing CV is also the real cause in not getting good jobs.

3. Expecting too much for job at least for 1 year after passing final examination means most of the graduates waste their whole year  waiting for job but they could have done something else to utilize their time in other useful works.

4. Ignoring importance of (Volunteer) Internships. It is one of the most important aspect for fresh graduates,collect your experience by working anywhere related to your field, surely within 2 years, you will see the reward of your experience or volunteer work.

5. Expecting so high that you will be selected directly in  multi national company with no experience, it is one of the biggest misconception as big employers need experienced & social candidates to serve their company.

6. Thinking of getting married within one year (for girls), 2 years (for boys). It can be funny but it is the truth for Asian Region, plan for your career first so that you may lead a peaceful and constructive life.

7. Missing Career Counseling Session or conferences by thinking it’s just a waste of time. For all those who feel and believe that such sessions are just waste of time, to me, they have wasted their whole careers. Pay proper heed towards career counseling sessions to map your future nicely.

8. Not beginning any small or  part time business until a job is offered. Entrepreneurship is a natural built in software present in every single person, the only issue is to light that spark high with proper risk management. Entrepreneurship is the best solution of killing unemployment.

9. Becoming so nervous for at least two with thought: Don’t know what to do, (smj nai araha kia karu yaaaaaar!) Lacking of Confidence, Leadership and motivational Skills & no planning for future or A,B,C Plans. This is a real problem, having no back up plan causes many fatal errors in career management so best thing to do is to line up your goals and 5 years future planning with at least two or three back up plans.

10. Last but not least, having no practical faith in God and paying no attention to what’s written in sacred book is the main reason of worst conditions because what we seed is what we are going to get in near future. So, give top priority in learning religion with research being neutral, surely you will see your all things  adjusted perfectly. keep praying in good and bad times.

I do remember all the time that

“If you can’t find the opportunity in your society, it is not the fault of that society but it is your mistake that you failed to create opportunities for yourself”

We miss people, things and occasions due to our faults and mistakes, so make it perfect but first plan it best from your behalf.

10 ways to boost SELF CONFIDENCE!

10 ways to boost SELF CONFIDENCE! (The most common issue)

Self confidence is one of the promising problem among many people including young and old ones. It is in fact one of the tremendous aspects in discovering new bright ways in personality, milestones,education, professional jobs,etc.  It poses many questions like, “Can I do this myself?, Do I qualify for this or that?, Why I always have to suffer so long…why me?, Can I run this whole project?”.

Majority of people who suffer this chronic issue are victimized due to lack of trust in confessing their inside power and abilities that they possess, which, later causes in inferior complexity, resulting in major cause of lacking of self confidence.

Here, I will discuss some important points which may relief this problem.

1. Do what you want to do, esp. that you feel like you would never do it. Chase your goals. Don’t worry if people demotivate you but never lower your morale. Remember,running after your goals makes you a piece of pearl and legend

2. Old method but still gold: Stand before mirror and speak aloud to boost your potential and confidence, later, use it initially for small group of people.
3. Make your first appearance to initiate in public discussions or forums, provide smart chances to your fellows to get involved in discussions with you. It will boost your interacting power

4. All creatures pay attention to dynamic object. Try to stand for long time on stage and feel the stage to overcome your fear.Use your stage or place wisely, keep changing your position time to time, when you deliver your pitch or presentation.

5. Make your eye contact accurate and moving so that you can maintain your eye contact with many people around you.

7. Use your tone in effective way, it reflects your potential, personality and confidence. Remember, don’t bark, just talk with high and low notes or tones.

8. Make your reflexes of your hands, shoulders and face expression appealing according to need of the condition and topic. They really make sound impact on audience to keep focusing at you.

9. Never shy to express your opinion in public, your shyness sometimes kills your talent. Present your opinion with good examples and reasons

10. Trust your abilities that you possess, keep shining them. All those who told you that you couldn’t do it, show them you have done it!

Part II: say NO to Jan & Janu stuff, par Q???

Thanks for liking the reality  of first part of “Say no to jan and janu stuff… par Q?”.

Now here, I will discuss some other faces of reality in the  same  way as  did it in prevous post

https://mbilalshaikh.wordpress.com/2012/11/05/say-no-to-jan-janu-stuff-par-q/

“Aik khushi ki khabar sunai di thy but wo b bhi block hogai k PTA would block all  late night packages of calls and sms which was appreciated by most of the youngster, despite the fact their jan, jani and janu things will be disturbed more but they appreciated at least the right things!” though by banning such offers will benefit our youth to save more time and efforts to do right things.

Love is so powerful no doubt about chahay abba ka ho ya amma ka, bhai ka ho ya ahm ahm ka, it is one of the locking power to lock you within it circle, but abba amma, chacha mama, sb ka love to gaya side mai ab to it is all about RANI’s love lol well it is the fact!

Imagine, in beginning, the feeling about any relationship goes like this:

Love dreams in beginning

haye haye! twinkling twinkling little stars! well,  sorry, it is  little hearts lol 😀  but with passage of time, when they end, conditions go so tough like this

this is the end, o teri khair!

“kash aisa nai hota!!, kash! saali wo mili hy nai hoti kbi mje, mje kia pata tha wo aisa niklayga…..:s :(, saray larkay aik jese hotay hn….dash kahin k ….!!!, jo apnay baap se sachi nai hosaki wo tum se kia sachi hogy, u know us ka dil bhar gaya tha mujse, blah blah blah”, reported by many youngsters.
Well, resuming to the hot issues, one of the critical things people waste in such activities is TIME! which is surely the key part in life! Engaging in wrong activities kills your hidden talent, suffocates your personality, germs your skills and at most YOU regret it when you miss the right time like true phrases mentioned above.
But in the end, focusing on only your love causes many hazards. You never know it effects your entrepreneur skills that you can build just after the matriculation but hamra shehzada to Nokia, iphone, htc and q mobile  mai ABC packages k sath apni jan, jani and janu k sath masroof hotay hn

Most of the youngsters after intermediate and graduation cry aloud for jOBs and money! q k jin se relationship thay ya thy unki to ab shadia horai hn aur mausuf bs beth kar sirf dekh hy sktay hn phr aik dam phr kahayal ata h k kash kuch saving ki hoti koi chota mota kam hy kia hota to help in rainy day! but now what it is worth for!!! So think back to see all good gifts that Allah has bestowed and don’t ruin yourself with those things which are totally illegal because what Allah has forbidden can never bring joy to your life!

And one of the strangest fact that all people observe in their life esp at teenage that to inspire girls or friends with some attitude problem on their profile pics or statuses.

“Mr. Attitude bannay k chakkar mai log apna aim and target hy bhul jatay hn :(“

Save your time

The moral of the discuss is to awake your Entrepreneur Skills at early eases your many financial issues and relieves many responsibility at early age because unfortunately now people place more worth for wealthy ones which is a complete disaster. But anyways, focusing at aims and targets can lead any girl or boy to horizon of success where he or she will surely find his or her true jan and janu at right time, the only problem with success is: PATIENCE, CONSISTENCY and HARDWORKING with utter belief in Allah for your success.

People will hinder and push your legs down but remember it is YOU who is going to make a difference, never forget test always begins when time is tough. And you can reach your goals with smart efforts in short time.