How to think positive in tough times – M. Bilal Shaikh – Audio Vine in Urdu/Hindi – 2016

 

M. Bilal Shaikh
Speaker l Trainer l Writer

 

10 ways to boost SELF CONFIDENCE!

10 ways to boost SELF CONFIDENCE! (The most common issue)

Self confidence is one of the promising problem among many people including young and old ones. It is in fact one of the tremendous aspects in discovering new bright ways in personality, milestones,education, professional jobs,etc.  It poses many questions like, “Can I do this myself?, Do I qualify for this or that?, Why I always have to suffer so long…why me?, Can I run this whole project?”.

Majority of people who suffer this chronic issue are victimized due to lack of trust in confessing their inside power and abilities that they possess, which, later causes in inferior complexity, resulting in major cause of lacking of self confidence.

Here, I will discuss some important points which may relief this problem.

1. Do what you want to do, esp. that you feel like you would never do it. Chase your goals. Don’t worry if people demotivate you but never lower your morale. Remember,running after your goals makes you a piece of pearl and legend

2. Old method but still gold: Stand before mirror and speak aloud to boost your potential and confidence, later, use it initially for small group of people.
3. Make your first appearance to initiate in public discussions or forums, provide smart chances to your fellows to get involved in discussions with you. It will boost your interacting power

4. All creatures pay attention to dynamic object. Try to stand for long time on stage and feel the stage to overcome your fear.Use your stage or place wisely, keep changing your position time to time, when you deliver your pitch or presentation.

5. Make your eye contact accurate and moving so that you can maintain your eye contact with many people around you.

7. Use your tone in effective way, it reflects your potential, personality and confidence. Remember, don’t bark, just talk with high and low notes or tones.

8. Make your reflexes of your hands, shoulders and face expression appealing according to need of the condition and topic. They really make sound impact on audience to keep focusing at you.

9. Never shy to express your opinion in public, your shyness sometimes kills your talent. Present your opinion with good examples and reasons

10. Trust your abilities that you possess, keep shining them. All those who told you that you couldn’t do it, show them you have done it!

7 Magical spells of SELF-BELIEVE (Self- Confidence)

Why SELF BELIEVE?

Most of the people in world complain about the life and lack of opportunity by imposing some excuses which they do know are not worthy to talk about. The failures usually give up since they never know how to explore the insights of SELF BELIEVE in them, if there are 6 Billion people are living on planet then every person has the POWER of SELF-BELIEVE or SELF- CONFIDENCE, it is just all about knowing it because every individual in this world has the special instinct which he or she never came to know because unfortunately he or she never got enough time for him/herself.  Science also believes that lacking of Self Believe is one of the most crucial aspect in the minds of failures, however, this disease is not ever lasting, one can easily recover it with proper understanding, sessions or lectures to introduce remarkable glories of life and success in life.

Magic of SELF BELIEVE

Self Believe or Self-Confidence reveals another sparkling & prominent chapter of your mind, personality and life that you hardly explore before in your personality. It not only nourishes your personality, communication skills and interacting power with the people to influence them but it guides you how to chase your goals of life. But, over dosage of it can cause serious problems to anyone’s mind sets, studies have proved that people sometimes become over smart with their abilities which is also the key figure for their failures. But being optimistic, one should keep the brightest sparks about life, Self-Believing and Self-Confidence. Let’s explore what you may get in handy when you really adopt it

The top 7 magical SPELLS of Self-believe:

1. You never depend on ANYONE for your SUCCESS, you rather become an example for others’ success

2. You start to enjoy the company of your COMPETITORS than to feel jealousy or annoyance, because you start to believe that your RIVALS are going to give some lesson for your SUCCESS.

3. Self-Believe is what, makes you UNIQUE INDIVIDUAL around your circle or in crowd.

4. You worry not about finding opportunity but CREATING new opportunities for OTHERS as well.

5. You always say HELLO & HI to tough calls or challenges with no worries, you actually start to believe in your abilities and that special instinct that God has bestowed in YOU.

6. You wave GOOD BYE to all NEGATIVE perceptions and grow with POSITIVE thoughts which certainly become enduring for your existence and personality.

7. Indeed, You can be one of prominent Risk Taker, Success Coach or Inspiring Trainer/Instructor.

All it takes is just Self Believe and Self-Confidence to put a check on your inner abilities

Now ,it depends on YOU that how you believe, do or wear it. You are never short of opportunities but lacking POWER of SELF-BELIEVE or SELF-CONFIDENCE.