Don’t panic! please… – M. Bilal Shaikh – Audio Vine in Urdu/Hindi – 2016

M. Bilal Shaikh
Speaker l Trainer l Writer

 

 

How to think positive in tough times – M. Bilal Shaikh – Audio Vine in Urdu/Hindi – 2016

 

M. Bilal Shaikh
Speaker l Trainer l Writer

 

PART II: Can you be the Motivational/Public Speaker OR Organizational Trainer?(the comprehensive practical Approach)

Earlier, we discussed some emphatic points in renovating anyone to be the key note speaker for Organization or Public Speaking in the post: https://mbilalshaikh.wordpress.com/2012/11/02/can-you-be-the-motivationalpublic-speaker-or-organizational-trainerthe-comprehensive-practical-approcach-part-i/

ATTENTION CAPTIVATOR

However, let’s explore additional factors which are concrete enough to mobilize your skills up to the mark and standards. One of the critical skill is ATTENTION CAPTIVATOR. This ability is very important and at high demand able in public or organizational speaking, it reveals how well you really are in grabbing the attention of the masses. Your this skill can really make a great impact in presenting your presentation. Personally, I always feel easy to deliver with my own natural style, tone, with ting or big experiences of common life. I do believe that real life examples impacts a huge impression on the audience to gain their attention. The time you instruct them like school teacher, it may impose some negative points because they are not there to listen their TEACHER again like High School. So, you must present the juice of your experience in such a polite, emotional, soft and jolly way that it does gain the attention with the intention of curiosity. You must have observed that some speakers/trainers use the SUCCESS/MORAL STORIES of different people or themselves, activities and presentations to catch the attention of attendees which somehow is successful expedition but captivating  with your tongue without any help is such a big deal to be unique from others.

It is a fact that GRABBING the attention may be the natural or God-gifted ability but I do believe everyone has it, it is the way you recognize and polish this ability.

Question arises that how can we estimate or build this important factor! Simple answer can be, observe the power of influence you have on the people around you that you may justify by your thoughts, ideas and reasons you deliver. After knowing and understanding your intensity, you can judge your inner abilities to be attention captivator.

In more simple way, You are like the audionic speaker, the way you BEAT is going to impact on the masses to be CONNECTED with you. The time you perfectly CONNECTED with your attendees is the time for you to rise. Attention Captivator is the skill ability that everyone must learn to justify their thoughts in sophisticated way. But during this process, one must care very sound attention on:
Your Content with style of presentation,
Words fluency,
Interesting Examples or Experiences
Guest-er, face expressions

In next post, will discuss the other relevant factors. Do share your response.

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KEERAY nikalnay wali KHALA (CRITICS)! available everywhere for FREE!
Learn how to treat them!

Last time, I discussed SAY NO TO JAN AND JANU STUFFS??? BUT WHY?, thanks for your appreciation & valuable feedback.

Now, here the topic is again interesting but  considering another group of people(boys or girls) who are well enough to demotivate us in pursuing our challenges, targets or goals  and I also expereinced such kind of people who really put bad remarks or critics for no good reason but they all could not let me down or any down once you start pursuing your passion or milestone but unfortunately many people do get hurt too badly by such kind of people and thus they stop dong or chasing their passions or targets just because of such ridiculous group of people or khalas.

As usual first check out the normal tags that you hear from the people when you do something good or smashing so some of the people in majority become the KHALA to find out the errs and lacking than to focus on the achievement or the content where they themselves have not even contributed much for their society in country. The tags or phrases are:
“O bhai bus pakao mat, bs bs chup hjao hmai pata hai how u got the position, kis kis k uthao gay…! suno zara ye banaingay Pakistan ko aik khush hal mulk apna to hal thek kia nai mulk ka kia karengay, He is making us fool huh!, Is he the only person to take whole  responsibility, aur koi kam nai hai,etc “

These sort of tags or teases you must have heard around at any stage of your life, their main job is to just critic for no good reason, you may call it as a piece of jealousy and tenderness that they can’t cop. They can neither do the GOOD nor they want anyone to do something good. For them, we may call it as, “Jo kuch nai kartay wo bs MUU k fire hy martay hain, wo jo kam karna chahatay hn wo chup chap apna kam kar jatay hain”. These people may seem to you well-dressed or well educated but they possess narrow thoughts and ideas which linger them to be in just small circle. The example below will completely change your mind to handle such people or KHALAs around you.

The lonely Frog’s success Story:
There were frogs by the river, challenged by the near-by birds to jump over the 10ft high wall, the frog with their over confidence accepted the challenge and divided in the number of 100 respectively. So, it was decided that first the 100 birds will cross the hurdle, so very simply,they did it with their flying skills but the real challenge alarmed for frogs, they asked frogs to give up and concede this match but frogs denied and started to take their chances, unfortunately, in first phase 50 frogs struck straight to the wall and push down by seeing the fear of FAILURE. Again, the leader of birds asked them to GIVE UP, but frogs denied, they continued to try but still failed up to 99. This was the do or die situation for the frogs and on the other side, it was the time for the near winning moments of birds to win the challenge.

The last frog was standing far away alone and was depth in great thoughts, they just whistled him to wake him up from his long thoughts and waved him to jump it all. All of sudden, he used his leaping skills and crossed/jumped the wall. The moment was full of surprise for all, the frogs were at the near gate of FAILURE where the birds were about to WIN the challenge but just because of ONE FROG, all conditions changed and frogs won the challenge.

The company of birds started to enjoy where the birds started to group near that winning  FROG standing near that wall. They were asking all together with different inspiring and critic remarks, “Wow,How you did that!?, Hey! You JUST fooled us!, How you could beat us?, tell us how you have done!,etc “but that frog was just listening and starring their faces. When the pressure grew and he didnt respond so they started to run thru the agony, in that very moment, the team leader of frogs came to them and said, “Hey, You all there, Don’t Shout, Listen to me! Don’t blame him, He just can’t listen, He is DEAF”, this answer made all birds speechless and ashamed, also it yields big lessons for us. Once you have the objective in your mind, just chase, don’t care what people say, they are meant to say and will be saying it all, all you got to do is to focus that’s it!!! 

So, this story can awake that instinct in you which can really motivate you when you begin with something new, be deaf when they lower your morale, confidence and motivation.

The moral of the discussion is that there are some best ways to cop such people or KHALAs in our society:

1.Never pay attention to their thoughts and ideas plus Keep adequate distance from them, they won’t influence you that much
2.You must possess good answers to shut them up OR be the DEAF FROG to avoid listening them
3.If you are simple,keeping no answer, just answer, “LIKEWISE”, it will simply return their every accuse to them
4.Be motivated and confident that you are doing for all not for them
5.Be sure, tomorrow they will be around you to appreciate you
6.Keep yourself motivated with a quote, “If people are jealous from you, be glad because you have that instinct that they done have”
7.Enjoy their critics in contrast with the Albert Einstein quote, “I am thankful to all those who said NO to because their every NO pushed me to do it all alone”
8. Always welcome the critics of those who provide you constructive opinions and they must have something remarkable in their lives to motivate.
9. Don’t even pay heed to those who just criticize for just criticism
10. Being a Critic & Umpire are very different persons. Be advised, the best critic can never be pessimist, he is always there to motivate personally not publicly.

Can you be the Motivational/Public Speaker OR Organizational Trainer?(the comprehensive practical Approcach) PART I

There are so many FAQs in the minds of most of the persons related to becoming the Public or Motivational Speaker or Trainer including organizational trainer/developer. Where some people do treat them like ALIENS they are from different world and so they become more inferior that why they can’t be like them. Here, I will put my best to share the perception, angles, people views and reasons to present the scope with different experiences in relation to our topic. We must know that the 10 basic pillars for concerned SPEAKERS, are:

1. Avoiding Undersestimation

2.Scoping Optimism

3.Be the Leader for all

4.Attention Captivator

5. Words magic

6.Confidence & motivation booster

7.Be the way YOU are/Originality

8. Equip with relevant Information/ Your Content

9. Understanding Public Relations & Masses Moods

10.Pitching/ Presentation skills

Persons, things and conditions are always in the angle how you see and receive the perception, your every single view about observing the situation is crucial. It is a common fact that for every normal situation all people think almost same, the only hiatus comes with the term “UNDER ESTIMATION of ABILITIES”. We generally find -ve power in form of friends or people to demotivate us and somehow once you lack your power of +ve, you  can easily be the victim of these truama. You may understand the point by the example presented below:

“Mind Perception is exactly imagining like TWO BULLS fighting in your mind, where you see them pulling each others mind, where you name them for example, Positive and Negative bull respectively, what is more amazing experience that we all observe is simple the winning! That bull is of course which is related to your mind set mean while the way you think, in the same way, that BULL (either positive or negative)is a winner, so keep thinking POSITIVE.

It clearly depicts the picture that the first step to be LEADING person begins with creating or allowing the wide space for OPTIMISM to shape your personality according to the LEADERSHIP skills, so here, we simply learned the fundamentals of LEADERSHIP. Don’t underestimate your skills and abilities, always find them from your daily routine.

i.e. You lead your younger bro and sis whenever you lead them to their schools, home, or friend’s home. You somehow lead your family in absence of father or mother. You somehow experience the decision making skills when your father asks your opinion and sometimes your decision is the best option they could ever had.

To be the LEADING PUBLIC FIGURE/MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER/ORGANIZATIONAL TRAINER, the common things that I discussed in this post are: say NO to UNDERESTIMATION, raise up your OPTIMISM APPROACH & scorching YOUR LEADERSHIP SKILLS.

In next post or PART II, I will discuss other FACTORS as well to determine and helping those who want to be our topic’s title.